A Letter to the “to be mom” Linda Ikeji by Jety CEO Jetysblogdotcom

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Why make unnecessary excuses for the life you chose to Live….?

I have been quiet all this while concerning this whole Linda Ikeji’s pregnancy saga..

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You are pregnant, Yes

You got engaged few months after you found out you are pregnant, Yes.

Some gullible ladies who looked up to you as a role model found out you miraculously got pregnant few months after preaching celibacy… Very disappointing.

Why try so hard to explain the reasons for not living up to the standard of a role model you portray to be?

You are pregnant is you are pregnant. Nobody is supporting premarital sex but why paint yourself all saint when you know it’s an activity you carry out daily. Seriously you are 36years so you owe nobody any explanation the way you want to live your damn life. Why not live it in peace and stop playing with the minds of young gullible ladies who have refused growing up and being their own role model?

All this your recent “trying to make excuses for yourself on social media” doesn’t make sense.. The deed is done so let’s deal with it. Stop making yourself look like a “cheap criminal caught in the act”.

Below is Linda’s post trying to defend her inability to be a good role model.

@Regrann from @officiallindaikeji  –  (How to hide a baby bump 101. Suck belle in and wear a high waist…lol). So, a few friends have been calling me, asking me how I’m holding up with all the trolling on the internet since I announced my pregnancy. I kind of felt bad for them because they were worrying over something I wasn’t. I’ve been on the internet for nearly 12 years now, I’ve made money, I’ve met amazing people, I’ve written about folks and stepped on toes (mostly of course, unknowingly…lol). So when people troll me, that’s fine. It’s called Karma. Lol. Fortunately it doesn’t get to me. There’s nothing I haven’t been called on the internet, and it will never stop because this is where I plan to do business for the rest of my life! So we all are stuck together. I’m not going anywhere…lol.

So let’s address some issues…and the reason why I bother is for the young girls who look up to me. I owe you and will always speak to help you in anyway I can because I want you to shine and be the better version of yourself.

So number one, let’s talk about this celibacy issue. I preached it a lot of times but I have NEVER said do not have sex before marriage. Here’s what I have always said to young girls and I maintain it.

Never ever give your body to a man for money. You’re worth so much more than that. You’re beautiful beyond measure and there’s absolutely nothing a man can give you that you can’t give urself if you apply yourself, believe in yourself and work hard. Start now that you’re young, pursue your dreams, work hard till your hands are sore and ur mind is tired, never listen to anyone who tells you you’re not good enough or you’re wasting your time, and no matter how hard it gets, no matter how rough the road becomes, never give up on yourself or your dreams.

2. I’ve always also said & I maintain it; do not sleep around because your body is too precious & deserves respect. You deserve love & dignity. I’ve always said sex should only happen when you find yourself in a loving relationship, with someone you love & who loves you back. I was 100% celibate until I was ready to share my life with someone and I met the man of my dreams. (unfortunately, I can’t share him with the internet..lol)

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