15 ways to tell if your partner is cheating without proof

7. Date nights have turned into a chore for them.

You used to look forward to date nights, but now you’re the only one who wants to go.
They claim to be overworked, broke, tired, or depressed. But you already know that’s not the case. You’ve been with them long enough to recognize deception.

And when they do go out with you, you’ve done the majority of the planning.

Of course, if they’re with someone new, they won’t be looking forward to spending a romantic night with you.

Some people believe it is possible to love two people at the same time. Certainly, it is. But they are not the same kind of love. Their passionate love is now gone, and all that remains in your relationship is the soft kind of love that you can give to a sister or friend.

8. They’ve developed a new obsession that keeps them awake at night.

They absolutely do! But it’s not quite what you think.

Your partner is suddenly interested in things they were never interested in before. They could have been madly in love with science fiction, for example. But they’ve been watching nothing but crime documentaries and conspiracy theories for the past month.

If they’ve suddenly developed an obsession with something and refuse to share it with you, there’s something fishy going on.

Perhaps they discovered a new hobby or interest as a result of meeting someone new, and they are enjoying that new interest with this person.

9. They get tired of you…

and they have the audacity to tell you!

You’ve been together for a while now, but you’ve never run out of topics to discuss. They used to think you were the most amusing person to be around… except for now.

They now find you boring, and they don’t hesitate to tell you so.

Is it because of the way you dress? Are you not intelligent enough? Nope. They’re probably bored, but they’re telling you this because it’s how they really feel. But, whatever you do, don’t blame yourself.

Of course, if you’re with someone new, the old one will be boring. It’s comfortable, but it’s also predictable and boring. This is most likely the only reason they feel this way.

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