10 reasons being a housewife is not such a bad idea

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Every man needs a perfect house wife, one with positive mind set and quality.
Marriage is not an easy relationship to maintain so women are expected to play a very vital role to maintain their marriage and keep away other women from their home.

10 Quality Of A House Wife Must Have

1. Keep Your Home Organized:
The healthy environment at home will uplift his spirits and mood.
Would you want to live in a messy house? Of course not! Your husband does not want to either. Keep your house neat and clean at all times. It make him dependent on you and miss you when you are not around! There is a quote that goes, A wife is a friend first, a lover second and third and probably most important, a maid. Your husband will appreciate all that you do for him and your home, and is sure to think he is the luckiest man to have a wife like you!

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2. Give Him Space:
Giving each other space is important in any relationship. You need to realize and accept that your husband has a life separate from you. He has other people and relationships too, such as his parents, siblings and friends. He also has his interests and hobbies. Do not stop him from having this other life. Give him as much space as he needs. This will make him love you more. You also need space and time to do what you like. This will give you and your husband time to miss each other, and appreciate each other like it should be.

3. Be Unpredictable:
If things are too predictable in any relationship, it can get boring and fast! Spice up things in your marriage by surprising your husband as often as you can. It can be in little ways romantic or cheeky. You can come up with plenty of creative ways to surprise him, but keep in mind that even simple gestures such as cooking his favorite meal or snack will do. The central idea is to surprise him now and then and keep him guessing about what might be next. Make it more romantic.

4. Stop Nagging:
Nagging does not work, so it is best to stop it. Instead, talk to him in a way that makes him wants to listen to you and resolve any problems that you might be having. There is a saying in which a nagging wife is compared to a dripping faucet. If you nag and complain constantly, it can create an unwanted rift between you and your husband. This could turn into a vicious cycle, forcing him to avoid you. This can create complications in your relationship and even make them worse as time passes. You cannot expect your husband to like you if he feels that you are constantly disappointed with him. So put nagging aside and talk in am understanding way.

5. Express Your Love:
These acts will bring him joy and the special moments and memories you create for him will make him love you more. Hiding love does not help your relationship. Your partner will appreciate if you are expressive about your love for him. Find ways to spend time together. Take part in activities that you both enjoy and some that he enjoys more than you. Small gestures are more than enough to show him that you love him. Hiding love does not help your relationship. Your partner will appreciate if you are expressive about your love for him. Find ways to spend time together. Take part in activities that you both enjoy and some that he enjoys more than you. Small gestures are more than enough to show him that you love him.

6. Possess Positive Qualities:
To be a good wife, you need to possess positive qualities. You need to be warm, kind, pleasant, caring, affectionate, friendly, positive and understanding. You need to be reliable, responsible and make your husband have confidence in you. Your warm welcome with a smile will relax him after a long and hard day at work. Be loyal to him and support him in his failures and successes. Be there for him especially when things are tough, whether at home or work.

7. Look Good:
It may seem trivial, but it is not. Take care of yourself and look good after marriage. Many women make a mistake of ignoring their looks after marriage. The fact is that looks will keep your husband attracted to you. Seduce him and make sure his attention is always on you. Maintain your health as well, as good health reflects on your looks and mood. Men love having a wife who takes care of herself and looks good. Looking good will boost your confidence and self-esteem, and make you attractive to your husband.

8. Go On Dates:
Go out for a romantic meal or arrange a picnic for two. Go for dinner and a movie like you used to. A great date will leave a lasting impression. Going out now and then will rekindle the romance. It will do your relationship wonders. Your husband is sure to be thankful for the wonderful dates and for recreating the magic. You may be having bigger responsibilities on your shoulders, but those should not be a hindrance to romance. The spark between you and your husband need not die out. Go on dates whenever you can, like you used to do before you got married.

9. Keep Him Happy In Bed:
Every marriage requires sexual intimacy. Making your husband happy in bed will make him want to keep you happy too. If you do not, he might look for gratification elsewhere. Research has found that men cheat the most for physical reasons while women do it for emotional reasons. Keep things exciting and new in the bedroom and you will have a husband who stays true to you and will never wander.

 


10. Be Respectful:
Mutual respect is important in any relationship. For you to earn your husbands respect, you need to show respect to him. This reflects in the way you speak and behave with him. Do not belittle, humiliate, strike or harm him in any way, whether in private or public. Watch what you say and think before you speak. Once you say something, you cannot take it back. Speaking without thinking may make you say things you regret later.

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